You can't change bhop settings. If you have tried all types of bhop and you get auto banned, just don't use bhop. If you use any reach below 4 blocks and hitbox below 0.25, you will not get banned. Even if someone records you, it is very unlikely.
Vape v3 is blatant. Vape lite is for bypassing. If you think only 3 servers cant detect 0.1 hitboxes, you are lying or uninformed. Just buy vape v3. If there's a server that has bedwars in it, 0.1 hitboxes are probably completely undetectable.